What is appropriate to gift an aging person; without making them feel old?

Gift selecting can be a very hard task indeed. This is especially true, if the gift receiver is a tricky person to shop for. Though they say humans go a full circle as they age, and are like children in the twilight of their life, there’s one major difference this time around. And it’s that they can get very touchy and grumpy about anything that reminds them of their age. If you are looking for gifts for a loved aging person, but don’t really know what to get them, then the below tips will help you out…

A smart device for the smart elderly

In today’s world, nearly all of us have our faces glued to our smartphones or other smart devices. This is mainly because if how efficient they have made our lives—when they are not distracting us from living our life, of course! Buy your aging gift receiver a smart device, or update theirs. This will help them keep connected to their friends and family, have all the services (like taxi services or cleaning services) just a tap from the fingertip away; and also make them feel like they are part of today’s culture too.

Something to cater to and building new hobbies

While retirement can feel blissful initially, for most people, it tends to get very, very boring; very quickly. A bored and empty mind is often at bad places; generally leading to loneliness and depression. Avoid this happening. Gift them something to fill their days with; a hobby they can work on and develop. It could be something they used to enjoy doing before, and no longer do; or something they always talked about trying, but never have. It could even be something they’ve never heard of before, compelling them to research and get to know it.

A holiday more age appropriate

The best part of the old ages is that mostly, you are free from commitment. If your gift receiver is someone who has spent a life time supporting a family or building a career, then no doubt he or she has not built many memories travelling and exploring. And now, their bodies are not supporting them when they have the time. Gift them with a holiday away at a health retreat Sydney (if you live in the East Coast); or something equally slow paced and relaxing without screaming “old and retired” at them.

Music of their time

Music has a way of transporting people through time. If your gift receiver is fond of listening to music, then no doubt he will be well familiar with the music and musicians of today. While gifting them music of today can be fun for them, if they like it, gifting music from their time will be more memory revoking and nostalgic for them. Try to look for songs and music that’s tied to their past happy memories. A trip down memory lane; in a positive note for a change…

 

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